LOL! I never saved my edited post last night. Anyways, as I mentioned there, I was "just saying". Also, Mr B... I was not judging you, I was merely sharing a feeling I got from your name... or maybe as Dr Huberman would say... a "state". ⚡
Ok, you really don't have to read the rest, I'm just having a little playful fun with you (don't we all need more playfulness and fun?- at least I do…).
And Happy New Year to you!!!
Since we are talking about the brain here, I'll share the “story my neurons told me” when I saw your name and read your message.
In my mind when I read your name and I see the picture of a muscly dude staring me down pointing a gun at me, I sense "belligerent" (wants to get into a fight). If that was real, I’d go “fight or flight?”.
I was not judging you, Mr B, it’s me sharing my reaction to your name. I think what happened here is a great example of half the stuff that goes on out there, like people say words, meaning is attached to words and things escalate. I am not saying you and I are escalating, but that’s one way for it to happen:
1) You have fun with your name and avatar (and for you it’s just a name)
2) I see a “vigilante” and tell you what I see
3) You tell me I should not judge your name (but I didn’t)
and so on and so forth.
If we were in a Star Wars type cantina, maybe we’d get into a fight. Or maybe I would just “FLIGHT” LOL!
Also if you use that avatar inside the video-game universe, it has an effect, right? If you use it here, it might have a different effect. I am pretty sure (another assumption LOL) you are waaaaay younger than me, so that’s another thing…
End of story. Sorry for being soooo long-winded and thank you for reading if you did read the whole thing :-)
I really look forward to Prof. Huberman’s tools for “de-escalating” our internal conflicts.
I started trying the “panoramic” view, if I feel my blood boiling, although I have ADHD and I mostly need sharp focus and staying on task for my work. So I’m trying the “long inhale, quick exhale” pumping in the morning. Then I also need the “calm down” breathing, cause I get anxiety when I see I am running out of time and I haven’t accomplished anything… and then I freeze and I get super-tired...so now I have to do the "calm down" technique AND the "energizing" one at the same time?
Take care Mr B! ☺️
:-)